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To save a relationship is interesting work for a man but for women it
can be a little easier. For the most part they have figured men out,
and we are indeed simple creatures. We are either passive or
aggressive. When we do show overpowering emotion it is usually the
wrong time. What women fail to realize is when we are in love with
you, affection is not the same. We have tendencies to be too
affectionate or cold. Nature has not given us a good balance for some
reason. We live by social standards and not our true feelings. But it
is our feelings that can be just as easily hurt as yours. We long to
be cared for and understood as well. Most of us men can have childish
moments and simple enjoyment like playing a video game or
participating in athletics. Something as small as this example could
be meaningless to some women but we like to get praise for: “getting
that high score”, or “scoring a goal”. A little compliment as that can
go a long way in our hearts. Though we don’t always say it, we like to
be nurtured and held as well. Almost as if we want to hear you say
“everything is going to be ok”. Especially in lengthy conversations
because we want to be listened to as much as you ladies do.
Communication breakdowns in relationships are a cancer and if not
corrected your time with him will eventually come to an end. Another
example that may sound familiar is when a man talks and finishes some
women like to start their own version of the story and start to
compare experiences which take away from what he feels. Sad thing is,
if he loves you he will go with it and chime in on what happened with
her. Some other guys show their anger and start an argument that just
becomes a big negative void for some period of time. We are simple
creature’s ladies. We want to be pampered and appreciated as the
greatest man to walk in your life just as you want to be treated as a
queen. Though most will respect your independence and not show it, you
have to respect our decisions as well. Though most of the time you’re
right in some discussions of independence, we need to know that we can
take care of you and that you need us sometimes. Your man is your
sanctuary and neglecting him to find your own way happens a lot.
“Maybe the grass is greener on the other side” comes into play, or
“wow he’s better looking”. But ladies vanity and beauty fades. When
you find a really good man keep him close and cherish him. We’ve
established that mostly all women just want to be loved, and told
everything is going to be ok. So why go for the super model male?  Why
go into a relationship with this “great looking guy” when your
instinct tells you this man knows he is good looking and lives off it
while you become a broken-hearted statistic? Good men are rare, so
don’t miss out, really listen to your guy, and if he’s not for you
then keep the search. We live to love each other, and a broken heart
is hard to repair especially when you know from experience. “The one
who got away” or that “special one” can be heard over and over again
and these are the people who can also salvage a relationship and with
a little communication, love can grow again. Pains we share in
relationships eat away from the inside out, hearts melt, and souls
sink. We keep a memory, a photo, a piece of clothing around that is a
daily reminder. You look at their name on your cell phone and wonder
if you should call or text and throughout the night a thought of what
they may be doing kicks around in your head. It’s deep, so deep that
when you do talk, the words are muttered and for some reason an
argument may occur. What next? If they argue “then maybe just maybe
they still hold feelings”. So you think. These are your choices now:
to move on or try to fight for her or him. Let the combination of
your eyes and your heart see the signs if it’s real. Sometimes your
heart alone can mislead you. Just remember that with proper
communication and unconditional love on both sides your significant
other will enjoy your company for many years to come. Ladies, you
really are interesting and beautiful individuals and we adore you for
being so unique but to have a man in which he will light up your world
forever you have to show the same love he shows you.  No more, no
less. Too much can lead one person to possibly take advantage of the
other. It is one hell of a balancing act but for true love it is worth
it. My friends this is the structure (at least in my eyes) to real
love. Men know your ladies and hold them up high as a queen. Love them
as you love yourself and be grateful that they chose you. Ladies
really understand your man and his silly ways honor him and show him
you’re always there as well. Give him that spontaneous hug or kiss.
Hold his hand, play video games with him. Make him feel as you’re only
protector. Love is a beautiful thing and it is a shame people miss
out. The equation is easy: 1 + 1= 2 and that’s that.

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