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I can never explain just why some relationships fail between two
people who seem to be in love so much. Why does that fire die and the
spark disappear? Rage, animosity grows and kind compliments with
affection dies and instead of spontaneous hugs there are visions of
adultery or pain against one another. Love disappears. Sometimes its
mutual, and sometimes one person suffers this ordeal and it leaves a
footprint on their heart for as long as they live. Hoping that maybe,
just maybe their sweetheart can change. But it doesn’t happen most of
the time. Other times in true love things are rekindled which seems
better than the first time. Why? What happens to people when they
choose certain souls in their lives? So many feelings, moments,
memories all collected with one person…. Gone. See I believe love is
just like adding water day by day to keep plants or flowers alive. The
little things that are appreciated daily, the tears that fall together
in unison and not for pain one has inflicted on the other. The way a
simple thing as cooking dinner together can spark up the night sky as
if it were a celebration of new life. Small compliments nick names,
just the genuine appreciation that he or she is there. Most lack this
and watch their relationships diminish with no hope in sight.
Meanwhile they held that pot of water the whole time. It’s saddening
because vanity plays such a major part in most cases. Because it
really does not matter what kind of flower pot you have. With out the
love, the watering, and the tenderness the flowers or plant will die.
What a pity that this happens and especially now when relationships
become more and more electronic. There is no more staring into one
another’s eyes at dinner or going to the movies and holding hands.
It’s checking your phone and running to the computer, or the need to
go out with friends and “party”. Where is the romance? Has the way of
building a relationship become so fast paced that people just want one
to have one because the other is attractive on a website? The beauty
in building a passion is to really know one another. For men it’s a
simple as knowing her favorite color or number. Not what her favorite
designer is. It’s noticing when she gets a pedicure, not that she cut
her hair and you get angry because it’s not what you like. It’s
listening and really understanding what she says about everything. And
appreciate the intimate times because that is for the both of you, to
pleasure one another and get to know your bodies, real passion. It’s
not just for you and you should never be selfish with that. It is
knowing the scent of her perfume, so whenever you come across that
scent you see just her. And when in public everyone is faded in black
and white, and you see your love standing right there in the brightest
color as if sunlight was just on her to which you think “she is the
most beautiful person I have ever seen and I will always love this
woman”. This is what a man has to do. This is the cornerstone to make
it last. Know your woman, really know her, and let yourself and pride
go.

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